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Safe Surfing Guide

Last updated: 8th of May 2025

 

The internet is an amazing place to learn, create, and connect — but it’s important to stay safe while online. Whether you’re browsing music, chatting with new people, or exploring social media, following a few simple rules can help protect you and make your online experience fun and secure.

This guide is especially for younger users of tabimusic.com, but the advice is just as useful for adults too.

 

If You’re Under 16, Talk to a Trusted Adult

 

If you’re under 13, please make sure you have permission from your parent or legal guardian before using this website.

 

If you’re under 16, always let a trusted adult know you’re using social media, a forum, or chatting online. Even if a site seems safe, it’s good to have guidance and support from someone you trust.

 

Don’t Share Personal Information

 

Never post private information where others can see it — like on message boards, in chatrooms, or on social media. This includes:

  • Full name

  • Address

  • Phone number

  • Email address

  • School name

  • Passwords

  • Links to your personal social media accounts

Also avoid sharing personal details about your friends or family. Use a fun nickname that doesn’t include real names or personal details.

 

Never Arrange to Meet Someone from the Internet

 

No matter how long you’ve been talking to someone online, you should never meet them in person without a trusted adult. If someone is pushing you to meet up, that’s a big red flag. Tell a parent, guardian, or teacher right away.

 

Trust Your Gut — If It Feels Off, Log Off

 

If someone makes you feel uncomfortable or sends rude or inappropriate messages, don’t respond. Instead:

  1. Take a screenshot or print out the message

  2. Log off

  3. Tell a trusted adult

  4. You can also contact us at contact@tabimusic.com if the message came from someone through this site

No one deserves to be bullied or harassed — online or offline.

 

Don’t Open Suspicious Emails

 

If you get an email from someone you don’t know, don’t open it — delete it straight away. If it looks strange or includes unexpected attachments, it might be spam or a scam. Never reply to spam emails, even to say "stop".

 

Guidance for Parents and Guardians

Ask Questions

 

The best way to protect your child online is by staying involved. Ask questions like:

  • What websites or apps do you use most?

  • What do you do there?

  • Have you ever registered for an account?

  • What information did the site ask for?

  • Do you chat with other users?

Spend time online with your child to see what they’re engaging with and who they’re interacting with.

 

Keep Communication Open

Set clear rules and expectations for online use — and revisit them often. Encourage your child to ask for help when they see something confusing or upsetting.

Explain that not everything (or everyone) online is safe or trustworthy — and that they should always talk to you before:

  • Downloading a new app

  • Sharing personal information

  • Clicking suspicious links

  • Meeting someone they’ve spoken to online

 

Online Safety Basics

 

Teach your child to follow these online safety rules:

  • Never share account details, passwords, or personal images

  • Don’t reveal birthdays, hobbies, or hometowns in usernames

  • Keep photos and videos private — especially with strangers

  • Be cautious about anything shared in chats, emails, or messages

  • Never meet online “friends” in real life without a parent

 

Tools and Resources for Parents

You can help guide your child’s internet use with tools like:

  • Parental controls on websites, apps, and smart devices

  • Browser filters to block unsafe sites

  • Monitoring software to track internet use

  • Privacy policies on apps your child uses

  • App reviews before allowing new downloads

It’s also worth exploring parental safety guides on platforms like Google, TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube to better understand their policies.

 

Cyber Bullying

Online bullying is a serious issue. It might include:

  • Mean or threatening messages

  • Public shaming

  • Fake accounts or identity theft

  • Sharing private information or images

  • Harassment via texts or direct messages

If your child is being cyberbullied:

  1. Stay calm — and don’t respond to the bully

  2. Save and document all messages

  3. Report the user on the platform

  4. Contact your child’s school or local authorities if the situation continues

 

Final Tips

Whether you’re a young fan browsing music or a parent helping your child stay safe, remember:

  • Not everyone is who they say they are online

  • Think before you post

  • Ask for help if something feels wrong

  • Nothing online is ever fully private

  • When in doubt — log off and talk to someone you trust

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Need to Talk to Someone?

 

If you’re feeling upset, anxious, or unsure about something you’ve seen or experienced online, it's okay to ask for help.

You can talk to Childline — a free, confidential service where trained counsellors are available 24/7.

Visit: www.childline.org.uk
Call: 0800 1111 (free from any phone)

 

 

If you ever feel unsafe or uncomfortable while using tabimusic.com, please reach out to us at contact@tabimusic.com or Childline . We're here to help ensure your experience is safe, inspiring, and enjoyable.

 

Stay safe,

 

The TABI Team

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